What is it about success that makes everybody want to have it?
Let’s take a look at the moments in our life where we experienced success. It can be success in our job, in a relationship, in hobby or sport – wherever we achieved success it was just a great feeling. We want to repeat it as often as possible.
In our search for this repeat-craving life moment we ask ourselves: what positive feeling do we exactly experience when we achieve success?
In Wikipedia I read that self-esteem encompasses beliefs, emotions and behavior, it comprises our whole personality.
Self-esteem doesn’t depend on external actions or experiences. Contrarily, it is the manner of handling external actions. How you act, how you think, how you feel, every move of your personality is an expression of your self-esteem.
I like the picture of having self-esteem in each cell of our body. It makes self-esteem corporal and mental at the same time. With all our cells we live and express self-esteem. Everybody should have a highly developed self-esteem.
Quotes about esteem are actually more rare than quotes about anything else. Nevertheless we found 25 quotes on love and esteem from prominent people all over the world coming from politics, arts, science, religion and philosophy.
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The easiest way to find out how esteem works is when we’re relaxed.
We relax in different ways. We’re tempted to say there are as many ways to relax as there are people. However we relax it’s a moment we don’t feel the need for fighting, defending, arguing or being generally on the alert.
It started as a Tent City founded for homeless people and grew into a permanent neighborhood called Dignity Village. After conducting elections, Dignity Village even has their own administrative and legislative branches of government. The name tells it all: Dignity Village is a place that gives dignity back to people who’ve lost their jobs and homes.
Self-esteem consists of three elements: unconditional love, unconditional worth and growth This means a deep, quiet inner security that is not easily shaken under duress or after a disappointing performance. Individuals with healthy self-esteem are humble and recognize all people’s worth, according to Glenn R. Schiraldi, Ph.D., author of The Self-Esteem Workbook.
His good news are that there are these successful strategies for strengthening self-esteem.
This might sound a little out there “Learn to tolerate your self-esteem”, but it actually nails it.
Low self-esteem is usually due to a psychological attachment to being perceived in a negative light. By constantly seeing you in a negative light you learned a powerful lesson – that your existence is a negative.
The real problem though lies in the fact that as child you trusted the opinion of others and now you continue to trust the judgments of others. At this point, the black hole of negativity in your psyche is quite powerful and you may have a very difficult time shaking the emotional attachment to all the negativity.
Did you ever watch yourself when you speak about others? The kind of how you speak about others and how you see others reveals more about yourself than about the persons.
How positively you see others is linked to how happy, kind-hearted and emotionally stable you are. A person’s tendency to describe others in positive terms is an important indicator of the positivity of the person’s own personality traits.
Happiness is a gift. Happiness is also a matter of personal choice. What’s happening to us in the outside world is often an inside job.
We can approach daily circumstances with an attitude of our choosing. When esteem is an important part of our life we generally choose to be joyful. This joyful inner attitude will attract the outward experience of happiness. Therefore the pursuit of happiness is actually an inward journey. It’s up to us to keep our attitude joyful by living esteem daily. Our inner joy leads to happiness for us and for other people.
Who else than C.G. Jung can be consulted to this theme!