Being shy can be a character trait. In this case it means being introverted instead of extroverted. Shy people are generally less communicative, quieter and often more observant.
They can have a high self-esteem, knowing themselves as a calm and introverted character and accepting themselves as they are.
Being shy isn’t necessarily a sign of low self-esteem. Shy people with a healthy self-esteem know that already.
But what about all the others that suffer with their shyness?
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In a world where the most outgoing people seem to get the most attention shyness could be considered an undesirable trait. Some people even make the connection between shyness and low self-esteem.
In time we come to learn this isn’t necessarily true. There are shy people and there are outgoing people, and shyness doesn’t necessarily mean low self-esteem.
It’s okay to have a shy personality. These people should stay as they are, because it’s an expression of their own personality. Shyness can be compatible with a high self-esteem.
Shyness can on the other hand originate from bad life experiences or low self-confidence. In these cases, shyness is not considered a positive part of the personality.
Developing a high self-esteem can lead one to overcome this kind of shyness.